Steps in the Right Directions"
had the pleasure of meeting Mr. Barker one day while he
was out talking about his program. I was so amazed to
see him out talking about working to improve the relationship
between parent and child. What made it so interesting
to me was the fact that my girlfriend and I had just finished
having a discussion about trying to figure out how to
be a better parents and run a business. I even felt like
maybe I was not cut out to be a parent.
started using Daron's system and surprisingly enough it
really did work. I was so amazed. I have to admit that
at times I get lazy and allowed things to revert back
to the old way of interacting with my children. The biggest
thing about the points system is I see things differently
now. The points method is not just about changing my children's
behavior. It has giving me a means to watch my own behavior.
I am learning more about my own self. These days, when
I want to get onto my children I am more reserved because
I can clearly see what it is that I am not doing right
as oppossed to what they are doing wrong. In the past,
I would have never saw it and that makes me feel much
better because I know this is a step in the right directions.
for helping me be a better mother to my children.